“The 45 year old woman said that she has 4 children but each child is staying with a respective father. She is dating a 27 year old boy who at sometime introduced her to his friends.
She said that she equally fell in love with one of his friends, a 22 years old boy. Shep loves him more regardless of his age because she enjoys being with him and feels like she can’t survive without him.
Her relationship with this 22 year old boy is discreet and her 27 years old Lover is ignorant of it. She said that her only problem is on how to break up with the 27 year old boyfriend to consummate freely with the 22 year old
While her relationship with this 22 year old is unnoticed, she is afraid that if she dumps the 27 year old, who is a criminal he will be violent which means he can hack her to death.
I wont say it is love, or obsession, because even abnormal things have turned normal in the society, people now glorify cheating in relationship, fornication and adultery, I will give the definition of Cheating in relationship, fornication and adultery before you react constructively or destructively to this article.
Cheating in Relationship: can be defined as being emotionally or unfaithful to your partner who you are in a closed relationship with. Having physical or emotional contact with another person is typically considered cheating
Many times, it can be pretty difficult to singularly define infidelity and what’s considered cheating because people think differently about what constitutes appropriate versus inappropriate behavior. And the definition of cheating can be an especially fuzzy one for married people who’ve skipped the adultery conversation before tying the knot.
The only real way to define cheating and infidelity is if you personally feel your expectations of faithfulness have been violated. Are you feeling anger, bitterness, sadness, and betrayal as the result of questionable behavior? Say yes, and your S.O. is definitely cheating.
Adultery: is extramarital play that is considered objectionable on social, religious, moral, or legal grounds. Although the s******* activities that constitute adultery vary, as well as the social, religious, and legal consequences, the concept exists in many cultures and is similar in Christianity, Islam, and Judaism.
Fornication: is defined as “S***** immorality. Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; and walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour.
But FORNICATION, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.”
I wonder how abnormal thing has turned normal in the society, even our religion forbids it.