The issue of cheating in marriages is the main cause of most divorce cases . A repentant lady has disclosed a strategy side chicks use to attract married men and how wives can stop their men from cheating. She took to her Twitter handle to drop a whole thread on this issue.

A lady identified as Deborah Moses revealed that many things get a man to cheat even if they are spiritual leaders eg Pastors and Deacons. According to Deborah, one common strategy “ladies in the world” use to attract these men is the understanding a man lacks in his marital home. “Speaking by experience, it’s the basic truth” she said.

According to Deborah, some married women tend to switch concentration at some point in their marriage especially when they start giving birth to children. The worldly girl knows that he is not given enough attention at home so she’ll try to get his attention. Since the married man is not contented with the amount of attention his wife gives him at home, there are tendencies of him getting attracted to the side chick.

She narrated a personal experience. She met a married man who just wanted someone he could talk with asides having intercourse. Since she was a type of girl that loves gisting, she gave him all the time in the world. He became so attracted to her that he sent his wife and kid abroad. She also revealed that many worldly girls are gifted with the ability of knowing what a man lacks in his marriage and then using that particular thing to attract him. This is one of their strategies.

She further urged ladies to spice up their marital life. Going out on dates, effective communication, having fun, random gists. She finally asked ladies to commit their marriages in the hands of the holy Spirit because it isn’t easy. According to her, she has repented from doing the things of the world.

Screenshot of her tweet