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The bullying of plus size women is something that has been going on for a long time. People tend to misjudge their looks by telling them to limit their eating habit or go to the gym so they can shed weights, which is very wrong because most of these ladies feel comfortable just the way they are.

Social media may not be a suitable place to be, especially if you’re oversized because of the negative comments you get from people with other mindsets. This can cause low self-esteem.

As a person, it shouldn’t matter which size you are because what really matters is how comfortable you feel in your body.

However, for this lady dating was never difficult since she’s got a beautiful face.. She gets a lot of admirers but the main issue is that every man she dates would come and go.

It seems these men get attracted to her beauty but can’t handle her weight.

she opened up on how no man stays in a relationship with her for long because her oversized body.

Sex is something that many abstain from till they are married.

People make various choices in their lives; It could be on moral grounds, or in some cases, just a decision to abstain from sex till they get married.

For People like this, one of the most difficult things would be the determination of sexual compatibility with their partners.

Obviously, it’s Okay not to have sex before marriage but its not cool if you don’t discuss about it before then.

The story has once been shared of a bride who was persuaded by her new husband to have anal sex on the very night of their wedding or sometime thereabouts.

This particular couple had both abstained from sex till that wedding night, and when the time came to consummate their union, it occurred that they both had totally different ideas of what sex was meant to be like.

Apparently, the couple in question must surely not have had proper talk about their sexual preferences and towing such line in a sexless relationship could be the deadliest recipe for disaster. Its okay not to have sex before marriage   but it’s not cool to not talk or discuss it before then.

Deciding to not have sex before marriage is not a bad thing, and if that is what you want with your partner, it’s absolutely fine.

But choosing not to ascertain the sexual compatibility between you and your partner before taking such a huge leap as marriage is not advisable. And to determine the sexual common grounds between yourself and your partner without actually doing it, all you need is communication.

Unabashed, unrestricted, honest-to-God conversations. Large doses of it.

You need to ask all the questions imaginable, cover all the possible bases.

It is never enough to limit your talks to banks statements, number of kids, etc, only to relegate sexual compatibility to a place of nothingness. It does not work that way.

Since you will not actually be engaging in the sex, it is only logical to ask and have honest conversations about what that partner sees sex as, and what teases and pleases them, what they can do, what they can’t, and what they can’t do without.

It is only logical to ask and have honest conversations about what that partner sees sex as

You need to listen to your partner’s opinions on accepting and giving sexual pleasure, and gauge whether you can live up to that expectation or not.

You’ll need to voice out what you find impossible and ridiculous. You also have to be open to bending a bit here, being accommodating a bit there till you both reach a common ground on the subject.

If you are both comfortable with it, these conversations could be during couples pre-marriage counselling, where you have someone ‘supervising the negotiations.’

Whichever way you want it though, let it be known that sexual compatibility can be deciphered to a large extent without actually having sex if you both will just communicate right.

Love is an attitude and attitude determines your altitude.

We are all aware that love and infatuation are two very different things. We also know that love isn’t just an emotion. Love is a decision — a commitment. It’s the action of choice.
Love is more than an emotion – it’s a verb, an action — that we demonstrate continually regardless of how we happen to feel on any given day.

Sometimes, you will be baffled as to why a couple who fell in love with one another, professed eternal love to one another, got married and after many years of being together, they will get a divorce.

You will then start wondering, are these not the same couple that were full of love many years ago? Couple that were love birds? Couple that acted like they cannot live with each other?

Most times, it is usually because the man doesn’t want the wife anymore and the woman will always be confused as to why her husband doesn’t love her anymore, or why the husband no longer do the things she used to do for her before they got married.

I will mention the reasons why such things could happen, why a man will suddenly stop loving his dear wife even though they have spent so many years together, been through many things together and have overcome so many things.

Below are the reasons why a man will stop loving his wife after so many years of marriage.


One of the reasons for that is infidelity. When he newly married you, you were faithful to him but after a few years, you felt like he can no longer be that vibrant young man you used to know and then you will start being unfaithful to him, this will make him to stop loving you immediately he find out.

He may decide not to divorce you but trust me, you will wish he did because he will no longer give you the attention you want.


Another reason is that, when he was still approaching you, you were dressing like a princess, your dress sense was top notch, that was what probably drew his attention to you but after the marriage, and when you realized that he can no longer leave you, you started dressing like an old woman, he will lose interest in you and that will make him to stop loving you.


Also, when he was approaching you, you were so respectful but after he married you and a couple of years down the line, you turned into a lioness in his home.

If he should say one thing, you will say ten things and you will be ready to fight him, he will stop loving you.

You even insult and abuse him anytime you feel like doing that.


Also, he will also stop loving if you are the type of woman that was helping him achieve greatness when he first met you, you were dishing out wonderful pieces of advice to him but after he married you and a few years after, all you now do is to squander his money in frivolities, he will stop loving you.


Finally, if you were the kind of lady that always prepare his meal before he comes back from work when he first met you and few years after marriage, you stopped, instead you started telling him to go into the kitchen and make food for himself when he comes back late at night from work, he will stop loving you.

Life is messy and marriage is life. So marriage is messy, too. But when things stop working perfectly, we start blaming our partner for the snags. We add unnecessary mess to the already inescapable mess of life and love. We must stop pointing fingers and start intertwining them. And then we can we walk into, and through, the mess of life together. Blameless and shameless.

So, please, just be that person he fell in love with and he will never stop loving you.

Massage is a general term for pressing, rubbing and manipulating your skin, muscles, tendons and ligaments. Massage may range from light stroking to deep pressure. It is usually done by people who specialised in the field. They are called Massage Therapists. A massage therapist is someone who treats clients by using touch to manipulate the soft-tissue muscles of the body. With their touch, massage therapists relieve pain, rehabilitate injuries, reduce stress, increase relaxation, and aid in the general wellness of their clients.

Massaging is not a gender-specific job hence both males and females can work as massage therapists. However, depending on the location and culture, the clients for the massage therapist may differ. While some people believe that both males and females could go for a body massage from the opposite gender, some consider it as something which is not proper.

<p class="has-drop-cap" value="<amp-fit-text layout="fixed-height" min-font-size="6" max-font-size="72" height="80">Twitter users from Nigeria were recently thrown into a debate after someone identified as Nappy Blaze asked a question regarding some pictures of a massage therapist he shared on his timeline. Taking to his Twitter account this morning, Nappy Blaze asked if men will allow their partners to be massaged by a male therapist or not.Twitter users from Nigeria were recently thrown into a debate after someone identified as Nappy Blaze asked a question regarding some pictures of a massage therapist he shared on his timeline. Taking to his Twitter account this morning, Nappy Blaze asked if men will allow their partners to be massaged by a male therapist or not.

In his words, he writes, “Guys will you allow another man to do this type of body massage for your woman?” The question sparked various reactions from Twitter users. Most people responded that they won’t allow it because it is not proper to allow another man to be touching your wife in the name of massaging. However, few people opined that they could allow it, after all, it is just body massaging and nothing more. Check out some of the reactions below:

The police authorities in Lagos on Saturday raided a nightclub and arrested many fun-seekers in the state in a bid to curb the spread of the COVID-19 pandemic.

The operation was carried out by the Commissioner of Police in the state, Hakeem Odumosu.

A total of 237 culprits were arrested and moved to the State Force Headquarters at Ikeja.

Eighty-five of the suspects were arrested at the Lounge 38 in Bode Thomas Street, Surulere and 152 others at Club Victoria in Victoria Island.

Some Lagos residents arrested by the police for flouting COVID-19 protocol in the state on January 9, 2021.

Six people were also apprehended for allegedly violating the midnight to 4 am curfew in the state.

The suspects were later paraded today by the police who vowed to charge them to court soon.

Despite series of warnings by the Presidential Task Force on COVID-19 and health authorities against gatherings beyond approved numbers, many Nigerians have continued to defy the order.

The result has been an exponential spike in the number of COVID-19 infections across the country, with Lagos remaining the epicentre of the pandemic in the country, recording its highest number of infections of 807 on Thursday.

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Some Lagos residents paraded by the police for flouting COVID-19 protocol in the state on January 9, 2021.
Some Lagos residents paraded by the police for flouting COVID-19 protocol in the state on January 9, 2021.
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Kumuyi and Don Davis

Nigerians have attacked Deeper Life and its presiding pastor, Williams Kumuyi over a new report alleging that Don Davis Archibong, the Junior Secondary School 1 student of Deeper Life High School, Uyo, Akwa Ibom, who was allegedly assaulted and molested tested positive for HIV.

This comes after a Deeper Life doctor was caught sneaking into the hospital that admitted the boy and tried to inject him with a substance.

However, the mother of the boy, Deborah Okezie said all the tests conducted on him showed that he’s HIV negative.

In a Facebook Live earlier, she said she caught a doctor from Deeper Life High School taking blood samples from her son at the hospital where Don Davis was first admitted. 

And during a broadcast on Wednesday, Okezie said the man had been arrested.

She also said the principal of the school, Ndidi Solomon, insisted that her son was HIV positive. 

She said, “When he got to the school, and they did an HIV test for him, it was negative. All the tests recently conducted on the boy have come out negative. I don’t know why Ndidi is insisting he is HIV positive. Maybe they are waiting for what they put in my son’s body to manifest.”

This has generated reactions on Twitter with many Nigerians calling on the church and its General Superintendent, Pastor William Kumuyi, to react to the allegations.

Taking to her twitter page to express her concern, @feli_nwa said, “Why is the church doing everything to bury this case?  How hard can it be to give them justice?”

Chinyere O (@harchychy) said, “This is infuriating! Look how this woman, her son, and the family have gone through so much asking for justice. What horror is this! Kumuyi and Deeper Life Church, we’re seeing your evil. I hope this woman never gets tired and there (will) be #JusticeForDonDavis.”

Amaka (@AdashofGreens tweeted, “My God, our system is so broken and rotten that they’d rather destroy the truth and damn consequences, instead of apologising, fixing situations, and coming to a resolution. The whole back and forth is depressing, now I can’t imagine how Don Davis feels.”0 CommentsACTIVISM16 Hours Ago

Temitope Adekeko (@temitopeadekeko) said, “Even if he’s HIV positive. Even if he’s adopted. What do those things have to do with the matter on the ground? Is that the excuse for the molestation of the child?”

Hemophagocyte (@Cruxx29) wrote, “If the child was HIV positive, would they admit him into the boarding house in the first place?”

Didi_gozie (@patieceric_101) wrote, “Hope the boy wasn’t injected with HIV, please. That will be the height of all these.”

Nkem4eva (@nwaegbe_nkem) tweeted, “Ahn ahn!!!!! What rubbish is this? I hope that boy has not been infected, madam? Where is the sanctimonious @pastorwf_kumuyi in all this?”

Atagana Great (@GreatAtagana) said, “This is getting really messy. The silence from the school & the founder is irritating much and since she has been updating us, it’s logical that the school does so as well but it looks like the school is playing a silent game so that everyone will just forget the case.”17 CommentsChristianity1 Week Ago

Similarly, Amy (@Miz_Amy_) tweeted, “I’m quite perplexed by the way Deeper Life is handling this Don Davis issue. It’s a very straightforward matter for goodness sake.”

For Stephanie (@Stephanie_Nwagu), it seems some people are trying to silence Okezie’s quest for justice. 

She tweeted, “But this don Davis matter is really getting out of hand and she’s fighting this battle alone. People (are) really trying to silence this woman and it’s unfair.”

Faisal Shuaib, the boss of the National Primary Health Care Development Agency said, President Buhari and Vice President, Yemi Osinbanjo will be among the first to take the approved Covid-19 vaccine when it gets to Nigeria by the end of January.

Faisal Shuaib, the boss of the National Primary Health Care Development Agency said, President Buhari and Vice President, Yemi Osinbanjo will be among the first to take the approved Covid-19 vaccine when it gets to Nigeria by the end of January.

About 100,000 doses of the vaccine will be brought to the country soon and mainly health workers who are in the frontline in the fight against Covid-19, old people and political leaders in the country will be the first set of people to take the vaccine.

Faisal said, apart from the President, political leaders in the country like the Secretary to the government of the Federation, Boss Mustapha will have to take the vaccine in the public so as to create public awareness.

He said the politicians will be the first to be given the vaccine because no country will want its strategic leaders to die due to the virus.

He also said the country’s Agency for food and Drug Control will have to certify the vaccine before they will start to use it in Nigeria.

The Presidential Task Force (PTF) on COVID-19 has warned that the federal government may be forced imposed another nationwide lockdown over the second-wave of the deadly virus.
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<p class="has-drop-cap" value="<amp-fit-text layout="fixed-height" min-font-size="6" max-font-size="72" height="80">Speaking on a television programme on Sunday, the National Coordinator of the PTF, <strong>Dr Sani Aliyu</strong>, lamented that despite the deadly nature of the second-wave Nigerians have refused to adhere to safety protocols.Speaking on a television programme on Sunday, the National Coordinator of the PTF, Dr Sani Aliyu, lamented that despite the deadly nature of the second-wave Nigerians have refused to adhere to safety protocols.

He said: “If you don’t want a lockdown, the only way is to make sure we use our facemasks, avoid mass gatherings, avoid people who have respiratory tract infections, sanitise our hands and follow those non-pharmaceutical interventions.

“The very vaccines that we currently have are those non-pharmaceutical interventions.

“If numbers continue to go up, all options are on the table. There are countries in the world that have been able to control this pandemic simply by following these non-pharmaceutical interventions. They may be inconvenient, but they will not be as difficult as a lockdown”.

Aliyu said cases were multiplying in recent weeks, adding that 33 people died of COVID-19 in the last one week.

The PTF coordinator also attacked individuals and cleric saying that COVID-19 doesn’t exist, saying people with such thinking are probably living in a completely different world.

He said: ”I’m sure most of those who have been following the numbers will realise that what we have now far exceeds what we had in June/July last year.

“In week 52, which is the week we’ve just finished, we’ve seen a tripling in weekly number of cases, compared to what we had three weeks ago. The 6,000 cases per week is really huge. Our hospitals are already starting to get overloaded and we are already starting to feel the pressure within the healthcare system.

“So, talking about the projection, the projection really depends on whether people will start taking this very seriously and start following those non-pharmaceutical interventions that we’ve been talking about for the last one year.”

COVID-19: Police raid night clubs, arrest 71 for violating protocols in Lagos

Operatives of the Lagos State police command have arrested seventy-one persons for violating Covid-19 protocol at Lekki and Surulere areas of the state respectively.

The suspects were arrested during the raiding of Folix Club, Lekki and Bench Bar, Adeniran Ogunsanya, Surulere, area of Lagos.

Prior to the arrest, the Commissioner of Police, CP Hakeem Odumosu, had instructed the Taskforce, DPOs, and other operational units in the command to go after the recalcitrant and deviant individuals who might want to violate the orders and bring them to book.

Confirming the arrest, the spokesperson Lagos state police command SP Olumuyiwa Adejobi said that the clubs raided the Taskforce included Folix Club, Lekki and Bench Bar, Adeniran Ogunsanya, Surulere, Lagos State.

According to him, “the Taskforce impounded eleven vehicles for violating the 12 midnight to 4 am curfew and two vehicles for driving against the traffic(one way) on the same date”.

Meanwhile the Commissioner of Police, Hakeem Odumosu has ordered for the immediate trial of the suspects and necessary sanctions for the owners of the impounded vehicles.

Odumosu further directed that officers and men of the command must intensify efforts on total compliance with the COVID-19 guidelines and protocols as rolled out by the Presidential Taskforce and the Lagos State Government.

Please note that the photos in this article are for illustrative purposes.

In life, never you look down on anyone because you don’t know what the future holds. God turned the mockery of Susan into joy and glory. Which means he can also turn your shame to glory.

Just recently, I came across the story of a lady called Susan on Facebook. She shared a story of what happened to her for every one to see and I most say, I was really inspired and touched.

According to what the lady shared, “My name is Susan and I’m a 25 years old lady who graduated from the university after studying business administration.

I started looking for a job almost immediately I graduated but up to no avail. Life was really hard for me. I’m from a family of 6 children, 3 girls and 3 boys. And I’m the oldest daughter and second born.

Things we’re going really well for all my siblings except me. I was really struggling to make ends meet and pay my bills. My relationship life was zero.

In fact, no man wanted to have any thing to do with me, after dating for a few weeks, they always dump me. Maybe because I’m not pretty or erotic enough. But I kept hoping that one day, I’ll find my soul mate.

One day, I was coming back from my job hunt when I saw an ugly looking mad man, staring at me. He looked really hungry and tattered.

I felt pity for him so I bought him some snacks and a bottle of soft drink, he ate everything immediately. Then I continued my journey home.

Unknowingly to me, he followed me to where I lived. I was surprised when someone knocked on my gate. I asked him why he followed me, he smiled and told me “Because you are really kind and beautiful”.

I was shocked because the mad man spoke english fluently like someone who lived abroad. After that day, we became good friends. He often knocked on my door and I gave him food.

Sometimes we sit outside and talk about life, he was really intelligent and I kept wondering why he looked mad. I also decided to give him some of my big polos to put on and look a little decent.

People and my neighbours who noticed about the mad man’s frequent visit started gossiping about me. That I was having a relationship with a mad man. I was mocked and humiliated on several occasions.

Our friendship continued for a few months and then I realized I already had romantic feelings for him. He also confessed to me too that he was in love with me. At first I was confused but then I decided to follow my heart. The mad man proposed to me and I accepted.

The news spread like wildfire and my family got to know about it. My parents we’re highly disappointed in me and refused to bless my marriage. But I didn’t give up, I really was in love with him.

We had a small wedding ceremony in church and not many people attended, our news was posted on blogs and spread online. They tagged the headline as “Man mad gets married”.

All my friends were disappointed in me and mocked me for marrying a poor and dirty mad man. My husband and I moved in to my one bed room apartment and started living our lives as a couple. 3 days later, something really miraculous happened.

A few white men and women and a old Nigerian couple came knocking on our door. The couple said they’re the parents of my husband. They showed me evidence with pictures.

They said he escaped from the hospital where he was receiving treatment after having an accident that hurt his brain and mind 7 months ago.

And since then they’ve been looking for him, until they saw his wedding pictures with me on the internet. His family was extremely rich and settled in London. His parents thanked me for helping them find their son and told me to follow them abroad so that they can complete his treatment since I’m already his wife.

They treated him, gave him a makeover and my husband became so handsome and matured. He was no longer mad.

My husband’s family were not just rich, they were billionaires. I realized just how lucky I was. He got better, he and his family treated me so well with love and gifts, and he thanked me for loving him even when he was mad. My life changed for the better.

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