Love is an attitude and attitude determines your altitude.

We are all aware that love and infatuation are two very different things. We also know that love isn’t just an emotion. Love is a decision — a commitment. It’s the action of choice.
Love is more than an emotion – it’s a verb, an action — that we demonstrate continually regardless of how we happen to feel on any given day.

Sometimes, you will be baffled as to why a couple who fell in love with one another, professed eternal love to one another, got married and after many years of being together, they will get a divorce.

You will then start wondering, are these not the same couple that were full of love many years ago? Couple that were love birds? Couple that acted like they cannot live with each other?

Most times, it is usually because the man doesn’t want the wife anymore and the woman will always be confused as to why her husband doesn’t love her anymore, or why the husband no longer do the things she used to do for her before they got married.

I will mention the reasons why such things could happen, why a man will suddenly stop loving his dear wife even though they have spent so many years together, been through many things together and have overcome so many things.

Below are the reasons why a man will stop loving his wife after so many years of marriage.

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One of the reasons for that is infidelity. When he newly married you, you were faithful to him but after a few years, you felt like he can no longer be that vibrant young man you used to know and then you will start being unfaithful to him, this will make him to stop loving you immediately he find out.

He may decide not to divorce you but trust me, you will wish he did because he will no longer give you the attention you want.

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Another reason is that, when he was still approaching you, you were dressing like a princess, your dress sense was top notch, that was what probably drew his attention to you but after the marriage, and when you realized that he can no longer leave you, you started dressing like an old woman, he will lose interest in you and that will make him to stop loving you.

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Also, when he was approaching you, you were so respectful but after he married you and a couple of years down the line, you turned into a lioness in his home.

If he should say one thing, you will say ten things and you will be ready to fight him, he will stop loving you.

You even insult and abuse him anytime you feel like doing that.

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Also, he will also stop loving if you are the type of woman that was helping him achieve greatness when he first met you, you were dishing out wonderful pieces of advice to him but after he married you and a few years after, all you now do is to squander his money in frivolities, he will stop loving you.

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Finally, if you were the kind of lady that always prepare his meal before he comes back from work when he first met you and few years after marriage, you stopped, instead you started telling him to go into the kitchen and make food for himself when he comes back late at night from work, he will stop loving you.

Life is messy and marriage is life. So marriage is messy, too. But when things stop working perfectly, we start blaming our partner for the snags. We add unnecessary mess to the already inescapable mess of life and love. We must stop pointing fingers and start intertwining them. And then we can we walk into, and through, the mess of life together. Blameless and shameless.

So, please, just be that person he fell in love with and he will never stop loving you.

President Muhammadu Buhari on Tuesday received President Patrice Talon of Benin Republic who came on an official visit to the country at the State House Abuja.

It is also advisable to observe Covid protocols everywhere you go to help curb it’s spread.

However according to president Buhari’s aide Bashir Ahmed, president Muhammadu Buhari met with the president of Benin Republic Patrice Talon at the Aso Rock earlier today.

Apparently, Nigeria had recorded above the 100,000 virus mark and she’s putting more adverts out there to sensitize people on why maintaining social distancing, washing hands and putting on masks can really go a long way to help curb the virus spread.

Looking at the picture of the two presidents, you’d observe their masks on and sock distancing in their sitting arrangement. Meanwhile, Bashir Ahmed reported that the presidents assured that the two neighbours will continue to work with each other in the light of understanding.

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Maiden ship assembled in Akwa Ibom is expected to be ready come January 23, 2021.

With maritime development as part of the crux of the Completion Agenda of Governor Udom Emmanuel.
The Liberty Free Trade Zone licence and the Ibom Deep Seaport licence recently acquired through the ingenuity of Mr Emmanuel, attest to the readiness of the state to become a melting point in marine transport business.

Subsequently, berthing in Akwa Ibom is the first ship manufacturing yard in Oruk Anam, with capacity to produce security vessels, cargo ships, ferries and barges.

Norfin Offshore Shipyard, located at Oruk Anam local government, is ready to launch its first Nigerian produced vessel on the January 23, 2021. His Excellency, Mr Udom Emmanuel will be on ground to flag it open and further open the vista to more opportunities for the teaming youths of the state.

Charles Udonwa, an Akwa Ibom born ship merchant, is the chairman of the ship manufacturing factory has assured that in the next three years, the factory which is currently engaging 85 will have well over 3,000 young people in its workforce.

Members of Government House Media Team, including the Governor’s Special Assistant on Media (Research and Documentation), Mr. Essien Ndueso, visited the Shipyard to assess the progress of work at the factory.

Conducting the team round the facility, the Chairman and CEO of the company, Engr. Udonwa explained that finishing touches were being put to the vessel by the technical unit of the company, assuring that by next week, the vessel would wear a new look in readiness for its launch into the sea.

Also in the team were the Special Assistant to the Governor on ICT, Engr. Solomon Eyo and the Special Assistant on Project Monitoring to the Governor, Mrs. Josephine Bassey as well as members of the Research and Documentation Team.

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Govt House,Uyo
12/01/21

One of main reason is because of her ever young beauty! She just gets younger, with each passing day.

The following pictures, attest to the above caption.

Genevieve Nnaji, is a Nigerian actress, producer and director.

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The beautiful Nigerian actress has starred in the following movies, “Ripples, Ijele, Sharon Stone, Private Sin, Road to Yesterday, Blood Sisters”, amongst others.

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The veteran actress,was born on the 3rd of May, 1979.She is therefore, 41 years old. Don’t you just agree, with the photos seen so far, that she is ever young.

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Genevieve Nnaji, is a woman activist who is in support of the Nigerian girl child, to have a say as to who to marry. She also is against, women being abused. In her words, “I’m a proud feminist who embraces her feminity. I feel sometimes women are made to feel self – conscious and ashamed of their womanhood. Perhaps like Wonder Woman, we may wake up one day to discover that it is our superpower, and then we would be unstoppable “.

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In the year 2005, she won “Africa Movie Academy Award”, for being the best actress in a leading role.

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Genevieve became very popular, after she featured in the movie titled, “Most Wanted”. “Most Wanted”, was produced in the year 1998.The interesting Hollywood movie, is about four graduates, who were unemployed. As a result of unemployment, they chose to engage in robbery pretending to be men. You should watch the movie, as you surely would find it interesting.

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The actress who is also a producer, produced her first movie, titled “Road to Yesterday” in 2015.

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Don’t you simply agree, that the veteran actress, is beautiful?

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She has a daughter, who bears the name, Chimebuka Nnaji.

Mother of two, Mrs. Olubunmi Faseyitan sent goose pimples over everyone in the court on Thursday, when she admitted to consulting a spiritualist to inflict sickness on the husband.

It was a Customary Court sitting in Mapo area of Ibadan, on Thursday, where the court dissolved a 15-year-old marriage between a Olubunmi Faseyitan, and her husband, Kolawole, over voodoo attack.

Faseyitan admitted that she asked a witch doctor to ”tie her husband spiritually to milk him dry”.

”I never wished death on my husband. All I wanted was to keep him in bondage and make him sick, until he serves his purpose.

”I only told the witch doctor so that people would be convinced that his second wife was responsible for the calamity that befell him.

While delivering the judgment, the President of the Court, Mr Odunade advised that ”men and women intending to get married should seek God’s approval in their relationship before forging ahead”.

According to him, dissolving the union was in the interest of peace.

The Court also granted custody of the two children to Faseyitan while ordering the husband, Kolawole to pay N6,000 monthly for the children’s upkeep.

Kolawole, a factory worker had approached the court, praying for the dissolution of his 15-year-old marriage on grounds that his wife was into voodoo.

Former Nigerian President, Goodluck Jonathan

Former president, Dr. Goodluck Jonathan, has emerged as the African Leadership Magazine Africa Peace and Security Leader of the Year 2020, ahead of many other distinguished nominees across the continent.

Publisher of the United Kingdom-based magazine, Dr Ken Giami who announced the award at the U.K. Head Office of the group stated that Dr. Jonathan was overwhelmingly chosen by poll respondents because of his “commitment to deepening democracy, peace and security across the continent.”

According to him, the former President “who has led several African Union (AU) and ECOWAS missions across the continent, emerged winner after scoring over 80% of the total votes cast in the category, in a keenly contested poll.”

Dr. Jonathan was announced as the winner in the 9th edition of the annual African Leadership Magazine Persons of the Year Award, alongside 12 other distinguished Africans, including: Dr Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus, Director General, World Health Organization, WHO, as African of the Year 2020; Nana Akufo-Addo, President of Ghana, as African Political Leader of the Year; Mo Ibrahim, founder, Mo Ibrahim foundation, as the African Philanthropist of the year 2020; Graca Machel, as African Climate Champion of the Year 2020.

A statement by the magazine indicated that the poll attracted over 120,000 votes on the ALM website, over 7 million active online engagement during the voting period and over 5000 votes via email.

It stated that the winners shall be decorated and presented with honour instruments on February 26th, 2021, during the annual African Leadership Magazine Persons of the Year Award ceremony.

“This year, the event is billed to hold virtually and set to host influential Africans in business, politics, and all spheres of African leadership spectrum”, the statement added.

Giving more details on the selection process, the magazine stated: “The African Leadership Magazine Persons of the Year which is in its 9th year is an annual award reserved for distinguished Africans, who have blazed the trail in the year under review. A shortlist of nominees are selected from results gathered via a Call for the nomination – traditionally promoted via paid online and offline campaigns across the continent, Europe, and the Americas. The call for nomination is the first step in a multi-phased process.”

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Wearing face-masks, final year students of Government Secondary School, Zone 3, Abuja, sit in a classroom as they write their West African Examinations Council exams, following the ease of COVID-19 lockdown order on Monday August 17, 2020. Photo: Sodiq Adelakun/Channels Television.
File photo of students during a WAEC examination.

The Federal Government has insisted that the January 18th resumption date for schools in the country remains intact despite fears over the surge in COVID-19 cases in Nigeria.

“After extensive consultations with relevant stakeholders, including State Governors, Commissioners of Education, Proprietors and heads of institutions, staff unions and students, the consensus of opinion is that the resumption date of 18th January should remain,” the Federal Ministry of Education said in a statement issued on Thursday by its Director, Press and Public Relations, Ben Bem Goong.

This had sparked fears among many Nigerians that schools resumption might be put on hold indefinitely even though many states in the country had set dates for the reopening of the learning centres. 

FULL STATEMENT 

FEDERAL MINISTRY OF EDUCATION, 
office of the director (press & PR)
PRESS STATEMENT

SCHOOL RESUMPTION DATE OF 18TH JANUARY 2021 STANDS MINISTER
Sequel to the hint given during the press 12 January 2021 for the review of the proposed resumption date of 18th January 2021, the Federal Ministry of Education has undertaken a comprehensive appraisal of the situation. 
After extensive consultations with relevant stakeholders, including State Governors, Commissioners of Education, Proprietors and heads of institutions, staff unions and students, the consensus of opinion is that the resumption date of 18th January should remain, while parents and respective institutions must ensure full compliance with COVID-19 protocols including:-
(i) Compulsory wearing of Facemasks by all students, teachers and workers in all schools 
(ii) Temperature checks and hand washing facilities at strategic locations in all schools 
(iii) Ensuring constant supply of water and sanitizers 
(iv) Enforcement of maintenance of social distancing and suspension of large gatherings such as assembly and visiting days. 
(v) Avoiding overcrowding, including limitations in class sizes and hostel occupancy 
(vi) Availability of functional health clinics with facilities for isolation and transportation of suspected cases to medical facilities
(vii) Adherence to all other non-pharmaceutical protocols, restrictions and containment measures as may be prescribed/ approved by the PTF from time to time.
These measures which are to ensure safe reopening of schools for academic activities will be subject to constant review as we urge teachers, school administrators and other stakeholders to ensure strict compliance.

Ben Bem Goong 
Director, Press and Public Relations 
14th January, 2021

Akwa Ibom State Governor , Mr Udom Emmanuel played host on Thursday , 14th January, 2021 to the 8th Vice Chancellor of the University of Uyo, Prof. Nyaudo Ukpabio Ndaeyo, at the Executive Council Chamber, Government House , Uyo.

It’s the first official visit of Prof. Ndaeyo to Governor Emmanuel following his appointment as Vice Chancellor of the University of Uyo.

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Finally, FG Reveals When Schools Will Resume
The Presidential Task Force on COVID-19 made this known to the public that schools across the country will resume on January 18, 2021, until a fresh directive by the Ministry of Education.

Recall that the Minister of Education, Adamu Adamu, had said the Federal Government would review the date fixed for resumption of schools.

Speaking on a television programme, PTF National Coordinator, Dr Sani Aliyu said the minister did not say the date has been changed.

“As regards schools, I just want to make a clarification, what the minister said yesterday was that they were going to review, he didn’t say that they were going to change the date,” Aliyu said.

“He said they will review the situation and let the nation know.

“So, for the moment, it is still 18th January until the ministry of education comes back either with an alternative date or reconfirm that.”

The Chairman of the Presidential Task Force and Secretary to the Government of the Federation, Boss Mustapha, on Monday, said travels, reopening of schools, businesses and religious centres have contributed to the increase in COVID-19 cases in Nigeria.

Mustapha stated this during the PTF media briefing in Abuja, on Monday.

Atiku Reveals The Best Weapon That Could Be Used Against “Boko Haram”, See What He Said On Twitter.

“Atiku Abubukar” who was a former presidential candidate have revealed the best weapon that could be used against the “Boko Haram” terrorist group. Here is what he said via his official twitter account.

According to Atiku Abubakar, he stated that the ” Pursuit of knowledge” is the best weapon that could be used against the “Boko Haram” terrorist group.

Nevertheless, a lot of Nigerians have reacted to what Atiku said concerning the weapon that could be used to defeat the “Boko Haram” terrorist group, here are their comments and reactions.

However, it’s important to know that the Federal Government of Nigeria have been using various ways to ensure that the “Boko Haram” terrorist group is defeated.

So, do you think that the “Pursuit of Knowledge” is the best weapon that could be used to defeat the “Boko Haram” terrorist group?.

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