Prominent Nigerian activist and pro democracy activist Dr Joe Odumakin has buried her husband Yinka Odumakin who sadly passed away earlier in the month after a brief illness.

The popular Afenifere leader Yinka Odumakin’s Death had shocked Nigerians and had left his window distraught.

Recall that Joe Odumakin had made it clear when her husband died that a part of her has been taken away by Yinka.

The event which started in Lagos had been taken to Osun state where Yinka was buried amidst friends, families and some prominent Nigerians.

In a move that was quite shocking and unusual, the bereaved widow, Joe Odumakin had joined the Pall Bearers to Carry her husband’s coffin during the walk to the grave.

We could feel the love and bind between the deceased and the bereaved with this very touching act.

A number of people have reacted to this action, some called it an act of strength, some called it an abomination, others called it an act of love.

In Africa, If a husband suspects that his wife is cheating on him, there are Charms he can use to make her stuck on bed with her lover. African men have been using this method for long to catch cheating partners. A case of lovers that stuck together had just be reported by Vanguard Newspaper.

According to what Vanguard Newspaper reported

A married man was sleeping with a married woman without knowing her husband had used a charm on her as he was a truck driver and was never home most of the time.

They both stuck together while enjoying themselves on bed, and they were taken to the hospital last week Tuesday. The doctors were Unable to separate them because they got stuck together spiritually.

They called the woman’s husband who was in South Africa when the incident happened, he said he can’t come home till Thursday, last week.

After a lot of trials to separate them by Doctors, they both died on Thursday before her husband arrived, when they died, the doctors could not still separate them and they had to separate them by cutting part of the man’s body from the cheating wife.

What’s your opinion about what the husband of this woman did?

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Source: Vanguard Newspaper

I was twenty years when I found out my mom was cheating on my dad. I was a first-year student at the university and had returned home for vacation. 

I went to see my mom in her office one day and she left me for a meeting. Just some minutes after she left, I heard a beep sound, apparently coming from her phone. After a series of beeps, a call came through. I went to the phone and answered the call. 

It was a gentleman seeking to have a word with her. I told him my mom wasn’t around so he hung up. It was then the messages on the phone caught my eyes. I didn’t intend to read but somehow I was drawn to it since it was already opened.

“Would you pass by after work tonight so we spend some time together?”

That was the message that caught my attention. I went back to previous messages to make sure I wasn’t making things up. Everything was out there! They’ve kissed, they’ve traveled on several occasions, they’ve had sex and they’ve been together for about three years. “How could that be?” I questioned myself. “Where has dad been all this while?”

Mom had been a great mom to me. I’m the only child and she never ceased to provide and be there for me but from that day going, I started looking back and assessing the relationship that existed between my mom and dad.

Dad is the reserved type. He rather acts than talk. My mom didn’t like talking a lot too but she was very outgoing and forthcoming. Between them, they didn’t talk a lot. My mom would usually spend the night watching TV and dad would be somewhere around the house minding his own business.

They had been able to live for twenty-two years being like that with each other so I guessed nothing was wrong. They never fought—I never saw them exchanging words so finding out my mom was cheating was a very big blow to me. 

I needed someone to talk to.

Talking about it with my dad was out of the question. I feared he would be angry and trigger a divorce. I have a lot of wishes—having my parents divorced wasn’t one of those. Dad caught a hint of my mood and asked what the problem was. I couldn’t say the truth. He thought I was having boy issues and rather tried to convince me to share with him.

Yeah, I was having issues except that the person involved here was his own wife.

A week before school resumes, I gathered courage and had a discussion with mom…

“I know you are seeing someone else apart from dad,” I said. “And I know you’ve been seeing him for over three years. I know also that you’ve been traveling with him and spending time with him after work.”

Surprisingly she wasn’t stunned. She said, “You’ve been reading my text messages. I underestimated you. How long have you been doing that?” I kept repeating, “Mom why are you doing this to dad? You want to break up with him?”

She said nothing at first, she only kept staring at me. She answered, “You know only half of the story. Don’t judge me.” “I’m not judging you. I’m only asking you why.” She still looked calm. No sign of remorse or regrets.

“Are you planning on telling your dad?”

“If you don’t stop, I’ll have no option than to tell him.”

I thought that would put some fear in her but I was lying. She only said, “Let’s see what happens.”

I’ve been in school for about two months. I called my dad one night and asked him to give the phone to my mom to speak to her. He told me, “Your mom hasn’t returned from work and it’s already 10 pm.” I got triggered. It was like I was possessed.

I called mom’s phone several times after speaking with dad but she didn’t pick. She called the next morning to tell me she was busy. “Busy with your boyfriend I guess?” I shouted on the phone. She responded, “I’m still your mom, give me some respect, ok?” She hung up.

I was so angry I couldn’t think straight. My dad was a good man and to the best of my knowledge, he was playing his role as a husband impeccably well.

I went home that evening to spill the beans. As usual, mom hadn’t returned from work. Dad was in the dining hall eating rice he himself had cooked. I sat next to him and told him everything; “Mom is cheating on you. I found out from her messages. She comes home late because she goes to see the other man after work.” 

He was quiet. He didn’t say a word. “Did you hear what I just said? Mom is chea…” 

“I know!” He interrupted. “I’ve always known her ways from day one.” 

“You what! Do you know? And you haven’t done anything about it?”

He stopped eating and turned to me, “I haven’t done anything about it? I have. The first time I caught her cheating, I had to warn the other man to stay away from her. And he did. Not too long after, she dated a guy who was 15 years younger than her. I used her own phone to send a pleading text to the guy to stay away from my wife. The guy left. 

She pleaded for forgiveness and promised not to do it again. But you see, I can’t keep chasing flies off your mom. She can stay away from the flies if she wants to.” 

I’ve lived with these two all my life and didn’t realize they were going through such hard times? Where have I been? I was a girl and maybe didn’t think too much of them but since that day, I respected my dad more and resented my mom with all I have. 

I stopped picking her calls and refused to see her when she came around looking for me in school. She kept telling me, “You know only half of the story. Don’t judge me.”

So what is the other half of the story?

Dad insisted there was no other half story and if there was any, he wasn’t aware of it. Mom wouldn’t tell me what the other side of the story was. She claimed, “You are a child. Our daughter. You can’t know all of our struggles, especially the intimate ones. Leave us to fight our own issues.”

They never divorced and no one ever heard them fighting about this issue. 

I grew up and took less interest in the way they lived their lives. After all, they were both ok so who was I to get angry on their behalf? 

Dad died recently. He still wore his wedding ring with pride regardless of all the struggles. In my mom’s tribute to him, she called my dad a warrior. I knew what that meant. It takes only a warrior to live with a woman like her until the end.

But I wasn’t done until I got the “other half” of the story.

Mom said…

“When you were about four years old, your dad became impotent as a result of a sickness he was battling with. You were four and I was hitting twenty-five. That was the reason we had only you. For the rest of my life, I had to endure a sexless life with your Dad. 

I tried. God knows I did my best. Your father became impotent and also resigned from any affair with me. He didn’t even sleep next to me or even held me during the cold hours of the dawn. 

A gentleman found me beautiful at a point I thought I was decaying. He was all over me so I gave up resistance and had an affair with him. Your dad got a hint and drove him away. Another came my way. He was a boy but had the mind of a man. I had him and when I thought everything was going on fine, your dad happened. 

He drove that one too away. He drove them away and yet starved me of his presence and connection. Your dad was a good father and a friend but he wasn’t a good husband. I wasted my youth with him and that came at a price.”

That is the other half of the story. Dad is gone and can’t defend himself but mom had no reason to lie. I concluded that mom was a bad bitch but she too had her reason. Who am I to judge?

A man of God is a great pastor was exposed by one of his girlfriends that he was having an affair. This man of God was begging a married woman telling her how much he missed her and that she should come to his house. When the lady complain and tell him that her husband will suspect, he encouraged her to lie to her husband. The man of God even told this lady that his wife will be going to Nigeria so he and her can have the house all for themselves. The person who exposed them also told Mrs sadiki that you not the only person the man of God is having an affair with, they are other women too. The person also claimed that the pastor was giving Mrs sadiki many duties in the church so that he can be close to her all the time.

this must be a huge embarrassment for Mr Patrick sadiki as his name has been mentioned and he is also a pastor. What do you think the partners of this people should do? File for divorce? Please leave a comment below

Sources: Kenya expose

Three years into my marriage, I could not believe that I have been deceived by my own wife. Precious was looking so innocent and simple the day I first saw her and made up my mind to marry her. Precious and I met in a shopping mall at Ikeja,Lagos and within seven months, we were legally married. My name is Michael and I am 35 years. I have been a successful business man who dealt in building materials. After our wedding, I pleaded with Precious to quit her job at the company and help me build my business so that it would become a family legacy. Precious, my wife refused and in short, she did not like me to bring up the topic.

One fateful day at the shop, I discovered that a large amount of money was not in the records and as such, the money was not paid into the bank or cash in the shop. I was able to detect this because I was there on the day we made the sales. I called my shop accountant and it was there I realized that my accountant has been stealing heavy sums of money from my shop. I was deeply pained and I took my car keys and sped to my wife’s office. I had made up my mind to stop her from going to the office. Precious is an accountant with other qualifications and now my shop accountant has stolen so much from me.

When I got to the office, I did not wait at the car park as usual for her to come out. I entered the reception hall and demanded to see the company’s accountant. I was directed to the office. I knocked on the door and met a handsome and tall young man in there. I demanded to see my wife and he said he did not know what I was talking about. He asked me my wife’s name and I told him. I saw the shock on his face and he offered to show me her office. I followed him waiting to see the next surprise. He led me to a large office which was labelled CEO in golden letters. I wondered what we were doing at the office of the CEO.

When we entered, I saw my wife sitting on her seat and golng through files. She dropped her pen as she looked up and saw me. The young man turned and left. I stared at Precious and the office. Her portrait picture was on the right side of the wall. I saw with my own eyes that my wife has been lying to me for the past three years. She never told me she was the CEO. She is an accountant but now owns her own company. Little wonder why she never complained about her boss and even during her maternity leave, she was able to stay for six months before resumption. She even had nice car and a decent apartment as a single lady. I was proud of her but then, I was sad my wife was hiding the company from me and kept her position as a secret. How could I tell my parents and what a shame it would have been if someone else found out before me. Precious has been deceiving me and I never knew.

I stormed out of the office and went over to my friend’s house. I opened up to him and told him everything. He told me not to forgive Precious. He said a woman that could keep such a secret undiscovered maybe dangerous. I drove home in anguish in my heart. This may bring trouble between us because I”m not quite sure of how to handle the situation, please I need some advice.

A lawyer has narrated a strange story about how a man spent 10 years in jail for killing his Landlord after he caught his wife sleeping with him, only for him to come out of Jail and find out that she has two boys and also nursing a third child for a neighbor.

The lawyer said that the man came home to discover that his wife was sleeping with his landlord and out of anger, he hit the landlord with a stool on the head and he died instantly.

After about five years of trial, he said that the man later regretted his actions, claiming that he does not know how many people his wife would be sleeping with now that he was in jail.

Following their argument in court that he was provoked to commit his actions, the judge gave him 10 years imprisonment, and when he came out of prison, he discovered that his wife already had two kids and nursing a third one for their neighbor.

The moral of the story being that one should not kill anyone because of a cheating partner.

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Love is an attitude and attitude determines your altitude.

We are all aware that love and infatuation are two very different things. We also know that love isn’t just an emotion. Love is a decision — a commitment. It’s the action of choice.
Love is more than an emotion – it’s a verb, an action — that we demonstrate continually regardless of how we happen to feel on any given day.

Sometimes, you will be baffled as to why a couple who fell in love with one another, professed eternal love to one another, got married and after many years of being together, they will get a divorce.

You will then start wondering, are these not the same couple that were full of love many years ago? Couple that were love birds? Couple that acted like they cannot live with each other?

Most times, it is usually because the man doesn’t want the wife anymore and the woman will always be confused as to why her husband doesn’t love her anymore, or why the husband no longer do the things she used to do for her before they got married.

I will mention the reasons why such things could happen, why a man will suddenly stop loving his dear wife even though they have spent so many years together, been through many things together and have overcome so many things.

Below are the reasons why a man will stop loving his wife after so many years of marriage.

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One of the reasons for that is infidelity. When he newly married you, you were faithful to him but after a few years, you felt like he can no longer be that vibrant young man you used to know and then you will start being unfaithful to him, this will make him to stop loving you immediately he find out.

He may decide not to divorce you but trust me, you will wish he did because he will no longer give you the attention you want.

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Another reason is that, when he was still approaching you, you were dressing like a princess, your dress sense was top notch, that was what probably drew his attention to you but after the marriage, and when you realized that he can no longer leave you, you started dressing like an old woman, he will lose interest in you and that will make him to stop loving you.

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Also, when he was approaching you, you were so respectful but after he married you and a couple of years down the line, you turned into a lioness in his home.

If he should say one thing, you will say ten things and you will be ready to fight him, he will stop loving you.

You even insult and abuse him anytime you feel like doing that.

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Also, he will also stop loving if you are the type of woman that was helping him achieve greatness when he first met you, you were dishing out wonderful pieces of advice to him but after he married you and a few years after, all you now do is to squander his money in frivolities, he will stop loving you.

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Finally, if you were the kind of lady that always prepare his meal before he comes back from work when he first met you and few years after marriage, you stopped, instead you started telling him to go into the kitchen and make food for himself when he comes back late at night from work, he will stop loving you.

Life is messy and marriage is life. So marriage is messy, too. But when things stop working perfectly, we start blaming our partner for the snags. We add unnecessary mess to the already inescapable mess of life and love. We must stop pointing fingers and start intertwining them. And then we can we walk into, and through, the mess of life together. Blameless and shameless.

So, please, just be that person he fell in love with and he will never stop loving you.

Death has claimed a married SDA Church woman from Lubosi compound in Mongu,  under unclear circumstances after spending a night at a boyfriend’s house.

The woman known as Precious Musole was discovered dead by her relatives at a boyfriend’s house on Tuesday morning in Mandanga compound after the boyfriend informed the sister to the deceased Woman.

And the disappointed husband (Mr. Kebby) has told Barotseland Broadcasting Network (BBN), that he is very sad and disappointed to learn that her wife (precious Musole) died at a boyfriend’s house as result cheating on him.

Mr. Kebby disclosed to BBN that precious Musole was a business Lady who on Monday told his husband that she was going in the Barotse plains to trade in Sour milk (Mabisi) not knowing that she diverted her journey and went to his boyfriend where she died in unclear circumstances.

And the officers from Mongu police have refused to arrest the boyfriend saying that there is ‘No foul play’ suspected in the death of precious Musole and that as police they are still waiting for a post-mortem report.

Meanwhile, the body of precious Musole is currently at Mongu mortuary awaiting burial tomorrow.

Mother of two, Mrs. Olubunmi Faseyitan sent goose pimples over everyone in the court on Thursday, when she admitted to consulting a spiritualist to inflict sickness on the husband.

It was a Customary Court sitting in Mapo area of Ibadan, on Thursday, where the court dissolved a 15-year-old marriage between a Olubunmi Faseyitan, and her husband, Kolawole, over voodoo attack.

Faseyitan admitted that she asked a witch doctor to ”tie her husband spiritually to milk him dry”.

”I never wished death on my husband. All I wanted was to keep him in bondage and make him sick, until he serves his purpose.

”I only told the witch doctor so that people would be convinced that his second wife was responsible for the calamity that befell him.

While delivering the judgment, the President of the Court, Mr Odunade advised that ”men and women intending to get married should seek God’s approval in their relationship before forging ahead”.

According to him, dissolving the union was in the interest of peace.

The Court also granted custody of the two children to Faseyitan while ordering the husband, Kolawole to pay N6,000 monthly for the children’s upkeep.

Kolawole, a factory worker had approached the court, praying for the dissolution of his 15-year-old marriage on grounds that his wife was into voodoo.

A pastor in Kisii County on Thursday is said to have slit his wife’s throat after going through her phone and finding weird messages.

According to media reports, the preacher is now under police custody after he tried to fake the suspected murder and make it look like a suicide.

People Daily reports that Pastor Joel Mogaka, 40, took his wife Irine Nyakwara, to one of the hospitals in Kisii town with pretence she had taken poison.

Kisii County Police Commander Jebel Munene who confirmed the bizarre incident said the suspect is now in custody pendingpostmortem to determine what killed the woman, who was a secondary school teacher.

The officer also said they are analyzing the suspect’s call history to determine if there were other people involved in the suspected murder incidence

The couple’s neighbours said the two had issues on Thursday after the man found some messages on her phone.

They also said they had other marital issues some time back which were solved by their relatives.

“They had been having marital differences on accusations and counter-accusations over infidelity. Elders attempted to iron out the issue in vain,” Tim Kironchi said as quoted by People Daily.